at 28, i finally understand. I been around guys who charge men how to talk to women, im talking about if you suck at talking to women, there are guys out there that will take you out in the field, to clubs, coffee shops, book stores, etc.. and push you to go approach women. then after your approaches youll get quick feedback. what im getting to is, its all about making offers! ok, so i go up to a chick and i start getting into this conversation with her, and it leads somewhere God knows where, as long as im talking to her without making her an offer i am wasting my fuking time, and hers!
the last 2 days i been on fire. i wasnt being social, maybe a little bit, or act like im some pimp daddy who gets all the women, all i was doing was make offers, and i got a total of 1 number, one girl wants me to get at her next week, the other girl said she gotta b/f but introducer herself to me right after wards, and the last girl i just punched my # in her cell and told her to call me.
now it makes sense to me when i hear an advice like "ask some girls out", its not about being smooth, or knowing what to say at the right time, its about making offers, one after another, and then of course being yourself. im still figuring out what being myself trully means but im slowly getting there. rejection is my best friend, and afterwards these girls wont be guessing what i want from them cuz from what i understand there are far too many men who just talk and too afraid to express what they want verbally, i used to be one of them.
so fuck paying money for advice on women, thats nice and all i did it once and ill never do it again, but everything ive learned throughout my life i need to apply it in making these small offers. offer after offer, not just to go eat lunch but to do whatever, im in a club and enjoy a girls company, lets go sit over there on a couch, im vibing with her on a date lets go to your car and make out. they can either say yes or no, or maybe but even that means one or the other. without offers men are nothing in my opinion, powerless creatures who cant get what theyre after. damn, no wonder i been feeling so depressed and so lonely.
weed has helped me out a lot though, blazing opens up my mind and makes me realize lots of things. i want to get to a point in my life where my mind is open without THC in my system.
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congratulations. what you mean by making offers though?
i mean like, do you ever talk to women and you just keep talking without ever telling them you interested in getting to know them? or telling her u wanna hang out or go get lunch. its basically that, when its time for a girl to say either yes or no. my problem was id talk to women, but i would never ask them if theyd like to come hang out with me or eat lunch of whatever.
what problem do you have with girls, is it talking to them, is it the introduction part, or is it making offers?
man.... i never done it like that where i asked them to come chill with a dude or hang out. i think i done it a couple of times and they rejected my ass. i ain't good with game man.
but how did you feel those few times that you did ask them? for me, i may feel like shit cuz i got rejected but i feel so much better knowing the fact that i did it. its like a boost of energy, the more i do this the better i feel.
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